Just yesterday marked the 41st anniversary of the
Roe v. Wade decision, which was noted by some right to life (or as I prefer, anti-choice) groups by a gathering in Washington, DC. I know some people consider the activists involved with anti-abortion protests as
benevolent "counselors", but I guess I have a hard time reconciling that outlook with the folks who yell about baby-murder, whoredom, compare clinics to the Holocaust and, presumably, the women who elect to end their pregnancies with--Hitler? and get a little handsy with people seeking information and medical care, and sometimes, I dunno,
bomb clinics and
shoot doctors and nurses.
I don't think people really seek "counseling" from random, uncredentialed strangers who lie to them about stuff and might be involved in some nefarious anti-life nonsense, but that's just me being knee-jerk rational. And yeah, those people are often even lying about things, like whether abortion is related to breast cancer (
it isn't) and whether women who've had abortions are going to be
desperately regretful afterwards. And while I know a lot of the nice folks who park themselves outside clinics are just sweet old religious busybodies who will pray for you and don't really want to bomb anyone, their tone deaf inability to express their reasons for telling someone else what they
really should do with their own bodies is just vexing.
And sometimes it's damn dumb. Take
Rep. Vicky Hartzler for example. Her rationale for why women should not end their pregnancies is that:
“It ends a beating heart, it leaves emotional wounds with women that they carry for life and it robs men of the privilege of fatherhood,” she said. “That’s why we must do everything in our power to end this devastating practice.”
Okay, I know I can't be alone when I see bumperstickers that say "Abortion stops a beating heart" who thinks "Well, that's the point." But this idea that it "robs men of the privilege of fatherhood". That's a privilege, not a right, okay? And actually, the ability to impregnate is not an ability to dictate what anyone does with her body nor provides any indication of fitness to parent. They aren't robbed of anything they have a right to, and the actual "labor" is pretty much on the woman's part, so? That might just be one of the dumbest reasons for somone to do their nine months and the cost of the hospital bill, plus the responsiblity of bringing a person into the world one is not prepared to be responsible for, except:
Hartzler asserted that if abortion hadn’t been legalized, “perhaps we would have had a cure for cancer now.”
And if sardines had wings, we'd all be using jetpacks.