I was told to put in the work. Show it. Show up. I learned how to put a little bass in my voice. I learned respect is earned, not one time, but every time.
Donald Trump never had to earn the respect that he has from the bottom up, in any environment where respect wasn't just his for showing up. Women can see through it. Do you not see his relationship with Jeffery Epstein? The couple dozen claims of sexual harassment or assault? How he speaks about women all the time? The religious right (that he has allied with) desire to end no-fault divorce and the grinning sadist desire to monitor our menses and try to punish us for our fertility and even stop us from travelling to other states to save our lives?
Some women just needed encouragement though--your vote is your own, and a silent but powerful force.
Anyway, I don't like when a person I feel pretty much is a sociopath says he wants to "protect me". Especially after taking away Roe. Do you know what pregnancy with a 52-year-old womb would look like? It's possible but it's not great. That didn't protect women like me. But he is more or less referencing "Birth of a Nation"--he will save white women from raping hordes of POCs.
And like--no. Because let's get back to the thing where women are afraid to not vote the same way their husbands do--because what happens to them then and what regular experience lets them know it is going to happen?
That is part of real women's lives and he isn't fixing that shit. He isn't fixing our churches and our local fucked up politicians who want to take away our rights to save us from the curse of feminism and "ills" like sex ed and birth control. He never walked in our uncomfortable shoes and had his fanny slapped. His sense of unsafety isn't like ours. He never has been in a position to get fired for not putting out.
Has he ever been even expected to do his job?
He doesn't want to know about women who worry about who is looking after their kids while they try to work to make rent and feed them. He makes examples of women who died because of migrant criminals, but the legal responsibility of laws that let women die because they were denied reproductive care is nothing he considers.
This is what our vote is for--we will protect ourselves.
This is what we had to learn.
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Sending "You are going to win this" vibes in a Post-Dobbs world.
When I saw 64 percent of NPA women voters in Iowa (!) were voting Harris (!) I knew Kamala can win this. A lot of Democrats are going to win this.
I want to believe, but from raw experience I've learned the lesson of Pandora's box--leave some of my hope in the jar. I went into election day 2016 feeling really good. There's another kind of thing I've learned--mourning as a measure of joy. I'm keeping my sense of things tempered for necessary hardness so nothing cracks.
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